There's such a thing as wanting to be number 1 in someone's life and it's another to want to dominate that persons affections.
How can you tell when someone you're involved with is demonstrating jealousy, or a need to control or dominate you?
#1 When this person seems to have to be involved in the organizing of your day to day life. You'll know they are crossing a line when they can't accept a decision you make.
#2 When you start to feel the effects of their possessiveness. They may say they're only being possessive because they love you, but if you're feeling it....it's real.
#3 When you're being checked in on constantly. If you arrive at your destination and you get a call or text to confirm you're there. One step further is when that person is checking in with your friends or family to confirm your story.
#4 When this person gets mad when you go against their wishes.
#5 When they start checking your Facebook and phone to see who you've been talking to.
When it comes down to it if you feel you're slowly being isolated by this person and you're having to defend what you've done, who you were with, or where you've been....you're dealing with a JEALOUS person!
Is it Love or Obsession?