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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

The Steps to Loving Yourself

In my last post we were discussing how to love yourself. The discussion was; before you can give your love to someone else you have to give that love to yourself. So the question is; What are you not giving to yourself?

Taking care of YOU is essential to being the best you can be. How you treat yourself often dictates how others treat you.

Maybe it's time you give to yourself. This doesn't mean materialistic things either, it means giving to yourself the things you've been lacking.

Give yourself:

Time - Some downtime, some rest and relaxation. Whether it's an hour in a hot bubble bath, or an appointment to get your hair and nails done...you'll feel better for having given something to yourself.

Nourishment - Feed your body with healthy foods, nourish your body but also your mind with pleasing sounds and sights. Go to nature to fill yourself up with nourishment. Take a walk, listen to relaxing music and just enjoy some time just for yourself.

Love - Look into the mirror and vocalize some wonderful things about yourself, to yourself. Whether you believe them or not, do it! The power of positive affirmations goes a long way.

For those who would argue and say I don't have time for any of these things, I'm too busy...then maybe you're making excuses...maybe it's time to MAKE the time.

Try my self-love spell and say these words;

I am beauty
I am love
I am a spark of the star shine above
I am divine
I am love
I am a spark from the moon up above
By the power of 3 times 3
Blessed be!



I am beauty
I am love
I am a spark of the star shine above
I am divine
I am love
I am a spark of the moon from above
By the power of three times three
Blessed be! - See more at: http://www.thelovespells.com/bls16.html#sthash.brV5fLNR.dpuf

I am beauty
I am love
I am a spark of the star shine above
I am divine
I am love
I am a spark of the moon from above
By the power of three times three
Blessed be! - See more at: http://www.thelovespells.com/bls16.html#sthash.brV5fLNR.dpuf

I am beauty
I am love
I am a spark of the star shine above
I am divine
I am love
I am a spark of the moon from above
By the power of three times three
Blessed be! - See more at: http://www.thelovespells.com/bls16.html#sthash.brV5fLNR.dpuf




Monday, October 28, 2013

Love Yourself So Others Can Love You Too!



The one thing all human souls have in common is the need for love in our lives. To give…..and receive love.

It starts with self love, with loving yourself. People generally follow your lead; if you love YOU, you attract that same love into your life.

It’s time to give to you… and believe me that is not a selfish act.

If you’re asking; Terri, how do I show myself love? I would answer by saying; Love yourself like you would someone else. Cook a meal for yourself as if you were the guest. Use your best dishes! Pamper yourself like you would do for someone who were visiting your home. Surround yourself with items that speak about love. Light a candle at dinner time and eat a fancy dessert because you’re worthy of it.

Take care of the outer you: Care for your appearance, it’s not about vanity it’s about showing your body you care. So many times I see women who are mothers whose children look like a million bucks, but they’re sporting sweats and ponytails. These moms take care and pride in how their children leave the house in the morning but do little to nourish their own appearance.

Take care of the inner you: Use positive affirmations to re-adjust your thinking patterns. You wouldn’t insult a friend by saying you’re ugly, you’re stupid…ect. Be protective of what you are feeding to yourself with your thoughts and words. You may feel a little silly repeating positive affirmations to yourself in the mirror, but tell yourself you’re doing it for your own good.

When you practice loving yourself others will click in and suddenly you’ll find love being drawn into your life.

Love yourself first, so others can love you too!

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Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Send in Your Spells

Have you seen TheLoveSpells.com's newest Love Spell?
An Easy Love Spell to Fan the Flames of Roman
An Easy Love Spell to Fan the Flames of Romance

An Easy Love Spell to Fan the Flame of Romance
An Easy Love Spell to Fan the Flames of Romance



An Easy Love Spell to Fan the Flames of Romance
Have you ever performed a love spell, protection spell, or luck spell?

Send in a video of your spell and it will be featured on TheLoveSpells.com.

Saturday, October 12, 2013

5 Ways to Attract Love into Your Life


Being single when you would rather be in a relationship can be make you feel isolated, and alone. It's always at these times in your life when it seems everyone else is happy and in love. But how can we attract a positive love experience to ourselves?

It all comes down to what you've learned leading up to now. What have your relationships taught you? If anything a relationship should ultimately teach you about your strengths and weaknesses.

  • How do you love? 
  • Do you give up too much? 
  • Do you let it consume you? 
  • Do you have walls that keep someone to far away or do you fall in love and give yourself away to easily? 

Here are 5 things to consider before contemplating your next relationship; remember it's all about the journey!


1. Take responsibility for your part in previous relationships
Are there patterns that need to be looked at? What have you learned?

2.  Failure is not an option!
With every relationship comes more experience that teaches you things about yourself. Every experience puts you a little closer in the right path to finding the one.

3. Don’t possess a negative attitude
The energy you put out can be felt by those around you. If it’s negative, than that is what you’ll attract.

4. Accept your relationship status as it is right now
Find reasons to be joyful. Accepting your life as it is right now allows for love to step into your life.


5. Love yourself first!
If you love YOU, others will too.

 Open yourself up, join Spiritual Singles today and find the love you've been waiting for!