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Sunday, December 29, 2013

Rekindle Passion in the Bedroom: Exercise the Magic

If your New Year's resolution is to spice up your relationship you might want to read on; here are a few ideas to put that spark back into the relationship.

1. Kiss
Something as simple as kissing can help to re-kindle the magic. Do you remember time spent with your lover when you were first together, how much time was spent kissing? Believe it or not kissing can be as intimate as making love. Re-discover the magic of a kiss.

2. Look into your lover's eyes. Spend time caressing each other lovingly. Don't allow yourselves to make love just yet!

3. Talk to each other about anything that doesn't relate to... your day, the kids, your jobs.....the daily humdrum of life can bring you down so keep the conversation happy and light.

Start with these three things to kick start the passion back into your relationship and see where it takes you!

Monday, December 23, 2013

Free Christmas Eve Candlelight Service

Spiritual Singles is hosting an event for Christmas; It's a Christmas Eve Candlelight Service where you can listen to a unique metaphysical interpretation of the Christmas Story told as a spiritual journey.

There are lots of free and paid events on the Spiritual Seekers website, so much to see and do!

Originally Spiritual Singles is a dating site for those who seriously seek to find their soul mate. But the website offers so much more than that.

Click the link to find out more information about the dating portion of it and how you can sign up!

Tuesday, December 17, 2013

How to Make a Love Potion Drink for the Holidays

It's the holiday season and if you're like most you'll be doing some entertaining. Here's a great drink you can make this Christmas; The Love Potion!

Follow the video instructions and create a love potion drink you can share with that special someone.

Monday, December 9, 2013

Mid-life Crisis or Breakthrough?

We've all been warned about a potential mid-life crisis when we reach 40. Men buy fancy cars, have affairs with younger women, and women leave their husbands.....and it's all a mid-life crisis, so they say.

I say for some maybe a mid-life crisis...for others a breakthrough!

There's something about reaching 40 that is not like the other decades you've passed. It's a make or break for you so to speak. You must decide if the life you have is really what you want. Because to move on and start over is a process all it's own and at this point in your life you need to be sure you're up for it.

Something about turning 40 presses all these buttons in your head and you begin to really weigh in on your happiness. Are you happy? Have you and your partner grown together or apart? Is this the life you dreamed of for yourself....or is there a nagging suspicion that there's something you need to do?

I have been there. I left my husband of 13 years. Everyone thought I was crazy; but my heart wasn't there anymore and I felt like a cardboard cutout of my own self living everyday for everyone else but me. I felt exhausted and aching for something more.

Every story is different, but mine resulted in finding my soul mate. I released my fate to a higher power and decided I was going to take a leap of faith.

It was tough, a struggle still at times financially and psychologically.....and has been a change for my children as well, but I had too...I simply had too.

So did I go through a nervous breakdown, or mid-life crisis? I'd like to think that it was a mid-life breakthrough. A chapter that would define how I lived my truth, for the next part of my journey. I feel more authentic as a result. I know it won't be easy..but I'm up for the challenge!

This is my story, it may be like yours....maybe yours is very different, but ladies and gentlemen don't ever forget IT'S YOUR STORY!

Here's a spell to call forth your soul mate.

Saturday, November 30, 2013

Change Your Energy, Change Your Life!

 Do you sometimes wonder why you're not attracting the things in life you desire? This may be a partner, or job, or even just a sense of well being? Maybe you feel exhausted all the time and you can't seem to generate enough energy.

What Makes Us Lose Or Gain Energy

Your body is made up of more than just flesh and bones; you are made of energy. This energy is powerful depending upon how you use it will determine the impact you make on your own health, relationships, and the power of your own energy force. Nothing works without energy; it's like the battery that charges your body. Some would refer to this energy body as the soul or life force.

  • When your battery is fully charged with positive energy your body is healthy, and your general sense of well being is at peace.
  • When your battery is fully charged with negative energy, which is just as powerful; you create a dis-ease within yourself that shows up as sickness, depression, and a feeling of exhaustion.
 You own the power to give yourself this positive or negative charge, everyday is a new day and with each new day brings new hope.

Channel Your Energy, Change Your Life!
Presence! Be present in every moment good or bad in your life. Turn off your phone! Be in each and every moment. Staying centered....helps to center your energy, bringing it back where it should be, in your core where it gets stronger and stronger. This energy is transferred into your organs, into your blood stream, into your entire body....and when it's positive it's creating a positive aura. Your aura attracts things to you, it invites people into your life or.....pushes them away.

Meditate, even for a few minutes every day and just clear your thoughts away and just breathe. Concentrate on your pulse, your breathing and stay there just for a moment or two. When you've done that be in a state of gratitude; feel grateful for your life.

When you get into this state of mind often enough you'll see a change in your energy, what you're attracting, and suddenly you'll be attracting love into your life...because your aura is cleared out and you now have the space to receive love.

u without indicating which glass you charged. Water changes its taste when you run energy into it. See if the other person can detect a difference in taste and ask them to describe the difference.

I've heard people describe it as "smoother, softer, better tasting or even less chlorine tasteless metallic, etc."

Imagine being able to drink your energy? Now there is a real "energy" drink for you!

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

Love Test: How Solid is Your Relationship?

Answer these questions truthfully to see what kind of relationship you have?

  • Do you have complete trust in your boyfriend/girlfriend?
  • Is the relationship free of jealousy or control issues?
  • Do you accept him/her for who he/she is without feeling like you have to fix them?
  • Do you enjoy doing things together, that doesn't involve sexual intimacy?
  • Is your relationship free of bickering?
  • Can you agree to disagree?
  • Can you talk to him/her about anything?

If you answered all of these with a YES, you have the real thing! Your love for each other is solid.

If you answered One of these questions with a No, Or've still got what it takes but there is work to do.

If you answered No to more than 2 of the questions you need to re-examine your relationship. Find the weak areas and work on improving it. Sometimes it's necessary to come to terms with the fact that you're just not good together. You can't change anyone, you can only improve on yourself and hope your partner cares enough to do the same. If he/she isn't willing then the answer is staring you in the face.

See more on Relationship Advice

Friday, November 15, 2013

Your Nose, knows! Attracting Love Into Your Life

 What is a VNO organ and how does it decide whom you're attracted to and whom you are not?

We all have a vomeronasal organ (VNO) up against the septum inside the nose that is lined with receptor cells drawn to other peoples body scents. This organ is functioning all the time and is responsible for whom we are attracted to.

It all starts at the onset of puberty; the Apocrine glands begin to secrete your own body scent specific to YOU, that can be found on the fands, hands, cheeks, scalp, breast areolas, and other places hair grows on the body. These scents are called pheromones.

You secrete the scent, and other people pick it up with the VNO organ. They will either be attracted to you or not.

There is a pheromone cologne/perfume that you can wear that doesn't have a perfume scent, it just works to enhance your own natural pheromones to draw others to you.

Read more about human pheromones

Tuesday, November 5, 2013

Attract Love With Rose Quartz Gemstones

If you've ever heard of gemstones than you may have heard of the rose quartz. This gemstone has properties that lend themselves towards opening you up to love. Many times we are searching for love but really we've shut something down inside that isn't allowing us to attract love our way.

A rose quartz gemstone, carried on your body as a token in your pocket, or worn on a necklace, can help to open those blockages and allow the signals you're sending out to be clear.

Here's an elephant that has been shaped out of rose quartz. Elephant statues have been said to bring good luck; so couple that with the rose quartz and it would signify good luck in love!

More gemstones definitions

Tuesday, October 29, 2013

The Steps to Loving Yourself

In my last post we were discussing how to love yourself. The discussion was; before you can give your love to someone else you have to give that love to yourself. So the question is; What are you not giving to yourself?

Taking care of YOU is essential to being the best you can be. How you treat yourself often dictates how others treat you.

Maybe it's time you give to yourself. This doesn't mean materialistic things either, it means giving to yourself the things you've been lacking.

Give yourself:

Time - Some downtime, some rest and relaxation. Whether it's an hour in a hot bubble bath, or an appointment to get your hair and nails'll feel better for having given something to yourself.

Nourishment - Feed your body with healthy foods, nourish your body but also your mind with pleasing sounds and sights. Go to nature to fill yourself up with nourishment. Take a walk, listen to relaxing music and just enjoy some time just for yourself.

Love - Look into the mirror and vocalize some wonderful things about yourself, to yourself. Whether you believe them or not, do it! The power of positive affirmations goes a long way.

For those who would argue and say I don't have time for any of these things, I'm too busy...then maybe you're making excuses...maybe it's time to MAKE the time.

Try my self-love spell and say these words;

I am beauty
I am love
I am a spark of the star shine above
I am divine
I am love
I am a spark from the moon up above
By the power of 3 times 3
Blessed be!

I am beauty
I am love
I am a spark of the star shine above
I am divine
I am love
I am a spark of the moon from above
By the power of three times three
Blessed be! - See more at:

I am beauty
I am love
I am a spark of the star shine above
I am divine
I am love
I am a spark of the moon from above
By the power of three times three
Blessed be! - See more at:

I am beauty
I am love
I am a spark of the star shine above
I am divine
I am love
I am a spark of the moon from above
By the power of three times three
Blessed be! - See more at:

Monday, October 28, 2013

Love Yourself So Others Can Love You Too!

The one thing all human souls have in common is the need for love in our lives. To give…..and receive love.

It starts with self love, with loving yourself. People generally follow your lead; if you love YOU, you attract that same love into your life.

It’s time to give to you… and believe me that is not a selfish act.

If you’re asking; Terri, how do I show myself love? I would answer by saying; Love yourself like you would someone else. Cook a meal for yourself as if you were the guest. Use your best dishes! Pamper yourself like you would do for someone who were visiting your home. Surround yourself with items that speak about love. Light a candle at dinner time and eat a fancy dessert because you’re worthy of it.

Take care of the outer you: Care for your appearance, it’s not about vanity it’s about showing your body you care. So many times I see women who are mothers whose children look like a million bucks, but they’re sporting sweats and ponytails. These moms take care and pride in how their children leave the house in the morning but do little to nourish their own appearance.

Take care of the inner you: Use positive affirmations to re-adjust your thinking patterns. You wouldn’t insult a friend by saying you’re ugly, you’re stupid…ect. Be protective of what you are feeding to yourself with your thoughts and words. You may feel a little silly repeating positive affirmations to yourself in the mirror, but tell yourself you’re doing it for your own good.

When you practice loving yourself others will click in and suddenly you’ll find love being drawn into your life.

Love yourself first, so others can love you too!

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Wednesday, October 23, 2013

Send in Your Spells

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Saturday, October 12, 2013

5 Ways to Attract Love into Your Life

Being single when you would rather be in a relationship can be make you feel isolated, and alone. It's always at these times in your life when it seems everyone else is happy and in love. But how can we attract a positive love experience to ourselves?

It all comes down to what you've learned leading up to now. What have your relationships taught you? If anything a relationship should ultimately teach you about your strengths and weaknesses.

  • How do you love? 
  • Do you give up too much? 
  • Do you let it consume you? 
  • Do you have walls that keep someone to far away or do you fall in love and give yourself away to easily? 

Here are 5 things to consider before contemplating your next relationship; remember it's all about the journey!

1. Take responsibility for your part in previous relationships
Are there patterns that need to be looked at? What have you learned?

2.  Failure is not an option!
With every relationship comes more experience that teaches you things about yourself. Every experience puts you a little closer in the right path to finding the one.

3. Don’t possess a negative attitude
The energy you put out can be felt by those around you. If it’s negative, than that is what you’ll attract.

4. Accept your relationship status as it is right now
Find reasons to be joyful. Accepting your life as it is right now allows for love to step into your life.

5. Love yourself first!
If you love YOU, others will too.

 Open yourself up, join Spiritual Singles today and find the love you've been waiting for!

Saturday, August 17, 2013

Which sex do you think lies more about themselves in online profiles?

According to "Nine times out of 10, a girl is only as attractive as her worst picture." Some advice; Use Pictures As A Guide, But Don't Always Trust Them! 

Well as a woman I can say it goes both ways, so to respond to and their article Online Dating Advice I would have to say that men are equally at fault for doing the very same thing.

Another bit of advice for both sexes; Take a look at what a person says they're interested in and then go back to their pictures and see if they have any that reflect that. So many times people add things to their profile they see as making them more attractive to the other sex, when in fact they are sending the wrong message about themselves. 

What do you think ladies and gentlemen, I'm curious to hear your thoughts on the subject. Which sex do you think lies more about themselves in online profiles?

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Do Love Spells Create Karma Backlash?

Allison asks:
Q: Do love spells on bringing back your love really work without karma backlash?
A: There's a fine line between casting a love spell to encourage a love interest along, but when the person of interest has clearly stated that they don't want to be with you and you create a love spell to draw them toward you, you're asking for karma backlash. Love spells are meant to open the space between yourself and your love interest, to open them up to the possibilities, creating the moment so to speak. But the rest is up to you, once they've been drawn into your space...there needs to be a mutual connection to allow it to flourish.

Friday, June 28, 2013

How to Break a Curse

Cathi writes: 

Dear Terri,

Someone has cast a bad spell on our relationship I was told this by many Physics, can you help me get him back, we were fine up until a few months ago. I really need your help to get rid of the spell someone has put on us. 

Thank You


Read my article entitled  Spell to Break a Curse and remember to be positive and believe that the curse will be lifted.


Saturday, June 22, 2013

The 5 Most Popular Love Songs Of All Time

And here you have it....drum roll please!

The 5 most popular love songs of all time;

#5 Love Me Tender - Elvis Presley
#4 With or Without You - U2
#3 Lady - Styx
#2 Unchained Melody - Righteous Brothers

And in the #1 position....a big favorite of mine....At Last - Etta James

Monday, June 17, 2013

5 Tips For Dating In Your 30's and 40's And Beyond

Dating in your 30's and 40's and beyond can be a challenge, but if you're willing to sift through some bad apples to find the one that suits you, well then it was all worth it in the end!

1. Stop chasing the bad boys (bad girls). Haven't you learned anything from past experience? Those who behave badly are never going to settle down. Let's face it you don't need the drama of trying to figure someone out at this stage of the game.

2. If you're going to use a dating site, BE HONEST! Be honest about who you are and what you really want. So many people put themselves in the "casual dating" category because they don't want to scare anyone away by making them think they're actually serious about finding love. When you do this, you attract those who are not serious, and that's not what you really want, let's face it. We all want love, not casual affairs.

3. Leave your baggage at the door! When you are going on a date with someone keep it about the two of you. They don't need to know your whole life story by the first meeting. They do need to know what you're looking for and what you're all about, but all of the relationship history is not something you need to bring to the table, so to speak.

4. Rely on your gut feelings when you meet someone, don't talk yourself out of a feeling or instinct about someone. Your gut feelings are usually accurate.

5. Have fun on a date; put down your defenses and let yourself enjoy the moment without placing huge expectations on yourself or your date. Be the real you, not who you think this person might want to know. If he or she is made for you it will be easy, it'll feel right. There's no need to try to be something you're not, being something your not is going to attract people you don't really have much in common with and potentially keep the ones you do...away. 


Saturday, June 8, 2013

Have you registered to be on the Spiritual Seekers Dating site yet? My next question is what are you waiting for? Register now!
You won't know you don't like it if you haven't tried it!

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Attract The Love You Deserve

Do you attract the love you deserve or do you attract the love you think you deserve?
Honor yourself, BELIEVE you deserve better, THE BEST! Because you do.

Spiritual Singles has been providing online spiritual dating for more than a decade in an effort to help people attract their soul mates.

Some of the features on the site include;
  • Instant Messaging (IM)
  • Compatibility Test and Sexual IQ
  • Questions to answer about yourself including the chance to create some questions of your own.
  • Member Videos that can give you insight into someone's character because you're able to hear their voice and see their mannerisms. 
  • Photo Albums
  • It even offers integrated astrological information and reports
Meet Your Soul Mate!
This spiritual dating site offers more than just dating opportunities, you can join spiritual groups, sign up for spiritual events, attend spiritual retreats and even sign up for workshops.

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Allison asks: 
Do you know anything about what love spell to use to help bring a love back? That is safe and not going to hurt others. I don't want bad Karma.

Terri's Answer:
When I concentrated on your situation, I drew the past-life issues card. It seems one or more of your past lives plays a part in why you want this person back in your life. You have abandonment issues you'll face in this lifetime again and again until you deal with being ok on your own, with just yourself. It's your opportunity to balance the karma and learn the lessons you need to in this lifetime so that you don't have to face it again.

Here is a love spell you can use to bring a love back into your life if you choose.

Here's a spell I would like you to have; it's for practicing self love.

Good Luck Allison!

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

The Measure Of A Soul

Using Angel Oracle Cards Can Help Guide You

Angel Oracle Cards are an ancient time-honored method of communication with the angels. Pythagorean numerology states that all numbers and images have a vibration in a mathematically precise way. These cards operate on the Law of Attraction. Your questions will always attract the answer with a vibration to match.

Q: Julia asks: Am I with my soul mate?

Card drawn - "Crown Chakra"
The crown chakra is the 7th chakra and is located at the top of the head.
This card indicates that deep down you already know the answer to this question. 

A: Your angels would like to trust your knowingness, and take the appropriate action. When you honor the truth the Universe will reciprocate by sending you the support you need to take action with your decisions. Your crown chakra may be blocked and that's why you're confused. Clearing your crown chakra will give you the clarity you seek.

Clear Your Chakras
Shake out your hands to clear the energy before you begin.

Lie on your back and take your hands placing one over on the other, palms facing downward. Place them over the first chakra (navel) and make a circle counterclockwise motions a few inches away from your body. 

Clear the energy after 2 minutes by shaking your hands. 

Now circle clockwise for a minute. Repeat this with each chakra, clearing all of your chakras.

Image taken from Wikipedia

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Terri Lewis' Advice Column

Do you have questions about spells, how to cast a spell, or maybe you have a question about love and relationships and how pheromones might be used?

Terri is now offering love and relationship advice as well as answering questions about spellcasting. Send in your questions at